Boys are lazy

So I've decided that the majority of males are lazy when it comes to dating! (I would say all, but I know there are some exceptions) And I can't say that this is all their fault. There are so many girls out there with low self esteem and such low standards for themselves that they put out with little or no effort from the guy. I am no slut and I expect a guy to work for this prize. I think very highly of myself and I have high standards for the guys I decide to date. If you think I'm so awesome then you shouldn't mind having to put a little work into a relationship. But it's like that saying "why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?" Why would a guy take time taking me out on a date and trying to be witty and impressive when he can go to a bar and pick up a girl who's willing to have sex for nothing in return? I have never been on a proper date where the guy picks me up from my house, treats me to something (dinner, ice cream, a movie, ANYTHING!), and then at the end of the night takes me home and walks me to my door and kisses me goodnight. I don't think that this is too much to ask, but apparently for some guys it is! This angers me to no end.
I also hate when guys say things and then don't back it up. If you tell me that you want to hang out and get to know me then when I invite you to hang out with me, I would expect you to say yes. It seems strange that when you finally get this invite to hang out with me, you suddenly decide that you would rather go out to the bar with your buddies. That's just strange to me. Actions speak louder than words and if you don't come over when you finally get the invite, I immediately assume you were lying when you said you wanted to hang out.

This is why I usually turn guys down before I even get to know them. I hate being disappointed by stupid boys that don't seem to get it. So I put don't trust guys and I usually push them away and that way I never have to get hurt. But I realize that I need to give someone a chance, and I need to let someone in otherwise I'm never going to find a boyfriend or future husband. And the moment I decided to let some of my walls down, this guy decides to change his tune and now he's MIA. Whatever. I give up.